Can someone please help me?  I read somewhere on this Wikia that in order to marry my dear Mr Digby I would first have to turn down an offer of marriage from Mr Ashcroft or Mr Curtis.  Well, I have been all the way through the Mr Curtis story arc and firmly rejected the gentleman.  I then thought Mr Digby would come around ...but nothing!  

Have I got to go all the way through the Ashcroft scenario now in order to secure Mr Digby?  I'm scared of going through all the botheration with the Ashcroft siblings simply to get left high and dry on the shelf at the end of it!  Heeeelp!